2.5-Year-Old: Development Milestones

The 30 month-old is delightful, often funny, and fun to be around.

Language

She's discovering the power of words and has begun commenting on things in her environment just for the joy of sharing and talking. Encourage theseconversations, and give her lots of help when she gets stuck on words she's still struggling to get out. At this age she can form sentences two or threewords long and can follow two-step requests. Reading, including the association of words with objects and activities, is fun and quite critical at thisage.

Imagination

Imagination is growing at this age, so books, stories, and make-believe play are getting more interesting to your child. Children this age play roles andenact scenarios rather than just imitate simple actions with toys. This leap forward of imagination means that new fears, worries, and anxieties may startto pop up.

Dreams and nightmares are evidence of the hard work your child is doing to put her exciting world in order. She's likely to be a little more hesitant innew situations than she was a few months ago, but she'll also be more interested in trying out her interactive skills with new people once she iscomfortable.

Order

Your child will start to want to put things in order, so tidying up after play will be an easier task, provided you break it into manageable parts: "Pickup all the blocks; now pick up the cars." At this age, praise for good behavior is a strong motivator, so supply it often. She has a fine-tuned antenna foreven subtle changes in your responses and moods.

Handy hands

Your child's fine motor skills will surprise you; she'll be able to open, take apart, and put together more things than you thought possible. Crayons,utensils, and combs are some of the tools she'll try to use just the right way.

Determination

Stopping an activity is a very painful experience for your child now. She'll need advance notice of an upcoming transition and some help changing gears. Tantrums at transition times are common now, signaling how much she wants to be her own person, so you'll need to brush up on your time-out techniques. Onthe upside: Though the blowups may be more dramatic than they were six months ago, they may also be fewer. Keep a steady course, and you'll find your childrunning for a big hug right after a big storm.

Life is an exciting up-and-down adventure at this age!